to truly love another,
you must first love yourself...
and it wouldn't hurt to wash your hands in between!

. .if a woman does a useless thing, none reproves her; if she does a harmful thing, few seek to restrain her; but if she seeks to imitate the goddess and to encourage others, all those in authority accuse her of corruption. So it is more dangerous to teach truth than to enter a powder magazine with a lighted torch.
                                                Tsiang Samdup
                                                The Book of Sayings

Tsiang Samdup seems to be a male, who may or may not have been or be a real person. The  quote speaks for itself.

Pleasure is a vital nutrient.

Weath is a measure of the degree to which we are willing to share intimacy with our world.